Defined


Husband

husband |ˈhəzbənd|noun

a married man considered in relation to his wife : she and her husband are both retired.

verb [ trans. ]use (resources) economically; conserve : the need to husband his remaining strength.

ORIGIN late Old English (in the senses [male head of a household] and [manager, steward] ), from Old Norse húsbóndi ‘master of a house,’ from hús ‘house’ + bóndi ‘occupier and tiller of the soil.’The original sense of the verb was [till, cultivate.]

Wife

wife |wīf|noun ( pl. wives |wīvz|)

a married woman considered in relation to her husband.

Husband and Wife. February 12, 2009.


An Open Letter To GoComics


To Whom It May Concern:

I have read the daily comics since I was old enough to understand that they were in the newspaper. Since the early days of the Internet I have consumed them from their sources online. With the purchase of an Apple Macintosh computer some six years ago I have used Comtastic to aggregate my favorite comics for my daily enjoyment.

You, GoComics, however have seen fit to block the images of the comics to outside sources. Your misguided business model suggests that your fortunes will somehow be improved if you force consumers of your product to visit your site, and your site alone to read Bloom County or Non Sequitor, among others. Your site infested with ads and popup windows and other nefarious “click me! click me!” traps for the unwary.

I refuse.

I will give up reading the comics if reading them means marching to the highly controlled beat of your drummer. They are available for free and with out all the slimy cruft of your grubby merchandising in the local newspaper at the library.

Sincerely,

A Former Reader.


Sharing iTunes Beyond Your Subnet


iTunes allows you to share your music library with other computers based on the same subnet of your network. Network addressing is too arcane a subject for this posting, but a simplified explanation will help. Each computer on a network gets a unique address, know as an IP address. (IP stands for Internet Protocol.) IP addresses have four sets of numbers, separated by a dot, e.g., 192.168.101.10. For licensing reasons Apple restricts the sharing of music to computers that have identical addresses except for the last portion of the IP address. If your computer has an address of 198.162.101.1, then any computer with an address of 192.168.101.* can receive your shared music.

Currently I have a situation where I’d like to share my music to a computer that isn’t on the same subnet. It turns out this is possible, if a bit cumbersome. I’m basing my instructions below on the much more detailed instructions I found the SSH Tunnel MtdWiki.  

Make sure you can establish a secure shell (ssh) connection from the client (listening) computer and the server (playing) computer. Open Terminal and type

ssh userid@192.168.1.1
where userid is the user account you have on the computer you’ll be using as the server. And where 192.168.1.1 is the IP address that machine has.

If this works then you are ready for the next step. If it doesn’t work, you’ll need to visit the Sharing preference pane (for Mac OS X 10.4.x) and make sure that Remote Login is enabled. While you are there, make sure that iTunes Music Sharing is also enabled.

Step two is to create a secure shell tunnel between the listening computer and the playing computer. One of the more useful features of ssh tunnels is the ability to forward a port from one computer to another. Services that listen to or respond at specific ports can be forwarded through a ssh tunnel to remote machines. iTunes uses port 3689 for sharing music. We want to establish a tunnel between our two computers that ties port 3689 on the listening computer to port 3689 on the playing computer. Something like this:

ssh userid@192.168.1.1 -N -f -L 3689:192.168.1.1:3689
Here’s a breakdown of the command:

ssh userid@192.168.1.1 is the normal secure shell login command. The -N flag makes it a non-interactive session, and the -f flag causes the whole command to run in the background, both of which free up your command line for other activities. The -L flag establishes the port forwarding from port 3689 on the listening machine to the same port on the playing machine.

Next you will need to install a Network Beacon, which allows iTunes to see the DAAP port (3689). The one I used is freely available from Chaotic Software. Since iTunes is geared to only “see” shared music from the same subnet, you need something to act as a proxy for the remote server. In this case Network Beacon acts as that proxy, allowing the copy on the listening machine to see the music on the playing machine through the secure tunnel and port forward we created above.

Here’s an image of how to configure the beacon on the listening machine:

{{ $image := .ResourceGetMatch “beacon.png” }}

 

With the beacon enabled, and the tunnel established, start iTunes on your listening computer and wait a few moments while the shared library is populated under the “Shared” heading in the sidebar.


Brain Food


Over the course of the past couple of weeks, I have observed an interesting phenomenon. The amount of Internet reading (RSS feeds, daily site visits, et cetera) that I do is inversely proportional to the mental engagement I have at work.

I’ll explain.

At my last position I was largely bored. The work, while important, was mind-numbingly dull and tedious. During the final weeks of my time there I consumed vast amounts of Internet reading material. My current position is anything but dull, I’m inundated with new material every day, and as a consequence, my Internet reading has been drastically reduced.

It seems that I require a certain amount of brain food in order to be mentally full and satisfied. When work doesn’t provide its share of this mental nourishment, I seek it elsewhere. It isn’t that the daily sites I visit are any less interesting, or that the RSS feeds I follow aren’t full of things I want to read, it’s just that my brain isn’t craving as much food outside of work as it was a few weeks ago.

Fortunately, I don’t think my brain can gain mental weight, so if I over-indulge for a while, I won’t have to go on an information diet later.


Backing Up Your Delicious Bookmarks


Recently I have become a big user of the social bookmarking site Delicious.  Nearly everyday I add several new bookmarks to my list on the site, the most recent ten of which appear in my sidebar.

Delicious is owned by Yahoo, which means the data there is likely safe for a long time. However, I don’t have any other record of these sites, so I was interested to see this Lifehacker tip on backing up your Delicious bookmarks using curl or wget. Admittedly this is a fairly nerdy solution, but that is where the attraction lies for me.

That’s it.  You could schedule this via cron, but that’s the subject of another posting.


Life is Good


Sibylle’s sister (Hi, Schwesterchen!) asked today, via email, how I was liking my new job, and how we were liking living in Manhattan.

Location, Location, Location

Living in Manhattan is great.  I told Sibylle this evening that living here feels like coming home on several levels.  Through the nine months Sibylle lived here, and we were bi-residential, I got to know the city a bit.  Since she moved to Overland Park eighteen months ago, we have made regular trips back.  Manhattan reminds me in many ways of Decatur, where I grew up. It has the same small-town feel; nothing is more than ten or fifteen minutes drive away; without the rust-belt cancer that plagues Decatur.

Having a decent sized university in town adds considerable vitality to the atmosphere.  We both enjoy the coffee shops here, and are looking forward to patronizing some of the culture events.  That we already have a wide circle of friends here is icing on a very good cake.

It Isn’t About Ego

The team I have joined is proving to be wonderful. They are energetic, motivated, creative, professional without losing a sense of fun, and best of all, not caught up in their ego. Every one has been friendly and helpful, willing to explain and to answer my endless questions.

We face some challenges, and I am sure there will be tough days, but this is the first job I’ve had in a long time where I feel like I am getting paid to play.  Moreover, it is the first job in at least a dozen years where I started out conversations or questions with “How do we…” or “where do we…” or “why do we…” instead of “how do you…”, et cetera.  I felt included, and I felt like I belonged from the first day.  Something I wasn’t able to say about the last position.

In short, I am very happy with my new position, and very happy to be living in Manhattan.


President Barack Obama's Inauguration Speech


Text of President Barack Obama’s inaugural address on Tuesday, as prepared for delivery and released by the Presidential Inaugural Committee.

OBAMA: My fellow citizens:

I stand here today humbled by the task before us, grateful for the trust you have bestowed, mindful of the sacrifices borne by our ancestors. I thank President Bush for his service to our nation, as well as the generosity and cooperation he has shown throughout this transition.

Forty-four Americans have now taken the presidential oath. The words have been spoken during rising tides of prosperity and the still waters of peace. Yet, every so often the oath is taken amidst gathering clouds and raging storms. At these moments, America has carried on not simply because of the skill or vision of those in high office, but because we the people have remained faithful to the ideals of our forebears, and true to our founding documents.

So it has been. So it must be with this generation of Americans.

That we are in the midst of crisis is now well understood. Our nation is at war, against a far-reaching network of violence and hatred. Our economy is badly weakened, a consequence of greed and irresponsibility on the part of some, but also our collective failure to make hard choices and prepare the nation for a new age. Homes have been lost; jobs shed; businesses shuttered. Our health care is too costly; our schools fail too many; and each day brings further evidence that the ways we use energy strengthen our adversaries and threaten our planet.

These are the indicators of crisis, subject to data and statistics. Less measurable but no less profound is a sapping of confidence across our land — a nagging fear that America’s decline is inevitable, and that the next generation must lower its sights.

Today I say to you that the challenges we face are real. They are serious and they are many. They will not be met easily or in a short span of time. But know this, America — they will be met.

On this day, we gather because we have chosen hope over fear, unity of purpose over conflict and discord.

On this day, we come to proclaim an end to the petty grievances and false promises, the recriminations and worn out dogmas, that for far too long have strangled our politics.

We remain a young nation, but in the words of scripture, the time has come to set aside childish things. The time has come to reaffirm our enduring spirit; to choose our better history; to carry forward that precious gift, that noble idea, passed on from generation to generation: the God-given promise that all are equal, all are free and all deserve a chance to pursue their full measure of happiness.

In reaffirming the greatness of our nation, we understand that greatness is never a given. It must be earned. Our journey has never been one of shortcuts or settling for less. It has not been the path for the faint-hearted — for those who prefer leisure over work, or seek only the pleasures of riches and fame. Rather, it has been the risk-takers, the doers, the makers of things — some celebrated but more often men and women obscure in their labor, who have carried us up the long, rugged path towards prosperity and freedom.

For us, they packed up their few worldly possessions and traveled across oceans in search of a new life.

For us, they toiled in sweatshops and settled the West; endured the lash of the whip and plowed the hard earth.

For us, they fought and died, in places like Concord and Gettysburg; Normandy and Khe Sahn.

Time and again these men and women struggled and sacrificed and worked till their hands were raw so that we might live a better life. They saw America as bigger than the sum of our individual ambitions; greater than all the differences of birth or wealth or faction.

This is the journey we continue today. We remain the most prosperous, powerful nation on Earth. Our workers are no less productive than when this crisis began. Our minds are no less inventive, our goods and services no less needed than they were last week or last month or last year. Our capacity remains undiminished. But our time of standing pat, of protecting narrow interests and putting off unpleasant decisions — that time has surely passed. Starting today, we must pick ourselves up, dust ourselves off, and begin again the work of remaking America.

For everywhere we look, there is work to be done. The state of the economy calls for action, bold and swift, and we will act — not only to create new jobs, but to lay a new foundation for growth. We will build the roads and bridges, the electric grids and digital lines that feed our commerce and bind us together. We will restore science to its rightful place, and wield technology’s wonders to raise health care’s quality and lower its cost. We will harness the sun and the winds and the soil to fuel our cars and run our factories. And we will transform our schools and colleges and universities to meet the demands of a new age. All this we can do. And all this we will do.

Now, there are some who question the scale of our ambitions — who suggest that our system cannot tolerate too many big plans. Their memories are short. For they have forgotten what this country has already done; what free men and women can achieve when imagination is joined to common purpose, and necessity to courage.

What the cynics fail to understand is that the ground has shifted beneath them — that the stale political arguments that have consumed us for so long no longer apply. The question we ask today is not whether our government is too big or too small, but whether it works — whether it helps families find jobs at a decent wage, care they can afford, a retirement that is dignified. Where the answer is yes, we intend to move forward. Where the answer is no, programs will end. And those of us who manage the public’s dollars will be held to account — to spend wisely, reform bad habits, and do our business in the light of day — because only then can we restore the vital trust between a people and their government.

Nor is the question before us whether the market is a force for good or ill. Its power to generate wealth and expand freedom is unmatched, but this crisis has reminded us that without a watchful eye, the market can spin out of control — and that a nation cannot prosper long when it favors only the prosperous. The success of our economy has always depended not just on the size of our gross domestic product, but on the reach of our prosperity; on our ability to extend opportunity to every willing heart — not out of charity, but because it is the surest route to our common good.

As for our common defense, we reject as false the choice between our safety and our ideals. Our founding fathers, faced with perils we can scarcely imagine, drafted a charter to assure the rule of law and the rights of man, a charter expanded by the blood of generations. Those ideals still light the world, and we will not give them up for expedience’s sake. And so to all other peoples and governments who are watching today, from the grandest capitals to the small village where my father was born: know that America is a friend of each nation and every man, woman, and child who seeks a future of peace and dignity, and that we are ready to lead once more.

Recall that earlier generations faced down fascism and communism not just with missiles and tanks, but with sturdy alliances and enduring convictions. They understood that our power alone cannot protect us, nor does it entitle us to do as we please. Instead, they knew that our power grows through its prudent use; our security emanates from the justness of our cause, the force of our example, the tempering qualities of humility and restraint.

We are the keepers of this legacy. Guided by these principles once more, we can meet those new threats that demand even greater effort — even greater cooperation and understanding between nations. We will begin to responsibly leave Iraq to its people, and forge a hard-earned peace in Afghanistan. With old friends and former foes, we will work tirelessly to lessen the nuclear threat, and roll back the specter of a warming planet. We will not apologize for our way of life, nor will we waver in its defense, and for those who seek to advance their aims by inducing terror and slaughtering innocents, we say to you now that our spirit is stronger and cannot be broken; you cannot outlast us, and we will defeat you.

For we know that our patchwork heritage is a strength, not a weakness. We are a nation of Christians and Muslims, Jews and Hindus — and non-believers. We are shaped by every language and culture, drawn from every end of this Earth; and because we have tasted the bitter swill of civil war and segregation, and emerged from that dark chapter stronger and more united, we cannot help but believe that the old hatreds shall someday pass; that the lines of tribe shall soon dissolve; that as the world grows smaller, our common humanity shall reveal itself; and that America must play its role in ushering in a new era of peace.

To the Muslim world, we seek a new way forward, based on mutual interest and mutual respect. To those leaders around the globe who seek to sow conflict, or blame their society’s ills on the West — know that your people will judge you on what you can build, not what you destroy. To those who cling to power through corruption and deceit and the silencing of dissent, know that you are on the wrong side of history; but that we will extend a hand if you are willing to unclench your fist.

To the people of poor nations, we pledge to work alongside you to make your farms flourish and let clean waters flow; to nourish starved bodies and feed hungry minds. And to those nations like ours that enjoy relative plenty, we say we can no longer afford indifference to suffering outside our borders; nor can we consume the world’s resources without regard to effect. For the world has changed, and we must change with it.

As we consider the road that unfolds before us, we remember with humble gratitude those brave Americans who, at this very hour, patrol far-off deserts and distant mountains. They have something to tell us today, just as the fallen heroes who lie in Arlington whisper through the ages. We honor them not only because they are guardians of our liberty, but because they embody the spirit of service; a willingness to find meaning in something greater than themselves. And yet, at this moment — a moment that will define a generation — it is precisely this spirit that must inhabit us all.

For as much as government can do and must do, it is ultimately the faith and determination of the American people upon which this nation relies. It is the kindness to take in a stranger when the levees break, the selflessness of workers who would rather cut their hours than see a friend lose their job which sees us through our darkest hours. It is the firefighter’s courage to storm a stairway filled with smoke, but also a parent’s willingness to nurture a child, that finally decides our fate.

Our challenges may be new. The instruments with which we meet them may be new. But those values upon which our success depends — hard work and honesty, courage and fair play, tolerance and curiosity, loyalty and patriotism — these things are old. These things are true. They have been the quiet force of progress throughout our history. What is demanded then is a return to these truths. What is required of us now is a new era of responsibility — a recognition, on the part of every American, that we have duties to ourselves, our nation, and the world, duties that we do not grudgingly accept but rather seize gladly, firm in the knowledge that there is nothing so satisfying to the spirit, so defining of our character, than giving our all to a difficult task.

This is the price and the promise of citizenship.

This is the source of our confidence — the knowledge that God calls on us to shape an uncertain destiny.

This is the meaning of our liberty and our creed — why men and women and children of every race and every faith can join in celebration across this magnificent mall, and why a man whose father less than sixty years ago might not have been served at a local restaurant can now stand before you to take a most sacred oath.

So let us mark this day with remembrance, of who we are and how far we have traveled. In the year of America’s birth, in the coldest of months, a small band of patriots huddled by dying campfires on the shores of an icy river. The capital was abandoned. The enemy was advancing. The snow was stained with blood. At a moment when the outcome of our revolution was most in doubt, the father of our nation ordered these words be read to the people:

“Let it be told to the future world … that in the depth of winter, when nothing but hope and virtue could survive…that the city and the country, alarmed at one common danger, came forth to meet (it).”

America, in the face of our common dangers, in this winter of our hardship, let us remember these timeless words. With hope and virtue, let us brave once more the icy currents, and endure what storms may come. Let it be said by our children’s children that when we were tested we refused to let this journey end, that we did not turn back nor did we falter; and with eyes fixed on the horizon and God’s grace upon us, we carried forth that great gift of freedom and delivered it safely to future generations.


Waiting For DSL


Of the many details needing to be addressed in our recent move, one that was high on both our lists was getting DSL service established at the new house quickly.  When I called to switch the service I learned that the “DSL Only” option that we preferred would take eight days to establish.  Getting new phone service in addition to DSL would cut that wait to only three days.  So, we got a new phone number.

Actually its a pretty good phone number, with a palindrome and a repeated pair of numbers. 

What we don’t have, however, is DSL.  Friday came and went with no service.  Late in the day I took some things to the shed out back and realized that I could see the end of the phone line sticking out of the exterior wall of the house.  Not attached to anything, just coiled up, hanging in space.  The television cable too.

I called the landlord who said that I would have to call the phone company and tell them that the house is “new construction” and would need “the drop completed.”  Good information, but it would have been better to know this three days earlier.

One 40-minute phone call to AT&T later (and at least three departments there, and as many service representatives) I had a repair order in place to establish phone and DSL service by 5:00 pm today.  Late this afternoon I called to get a status on my order and was assured that the ticket was still open and I should have service by 6:00 pm.  Hrm.  I wasn’t happy about the additional hour wait, but was still hopeful of getting service today.

At 5:30 I called again and was told that they were running behind, that if my order wasn’t completed today that they would get to it first thing in the morning.  That since my work wasn’t going to happen today, it would be a priority tomorrow.  Right.

Tomorrow we are tentatively planning on being gone much of the afternoon.  I have a fear that we’ll no sooner be on the highway than the cell phone will ring and the repair technician will need access to the wiring box in the garage.

For now I’m going to put my faith in AT&T, and believe that we will be a priority order tomorrow, that the technician will come and complete the drop first thing in the morning, and that we’ll enjoy high speed access once again.


Too Good For Lowe's or Home Depot


On our drive between Manhattan and Olathe we pass a prominent Billboard that asks the question,

Turns out that Stihl feels their product is better served by the chain of nearly 8000 independent retailers than by a large home improvement chain.  I though it might be a labor or liability issue.

On the subject of not selling your product in certain outlets to maintain an image, Daring Fireball has a link today about Snapper Mowers pulling their product from Walmart.


Hoisin Chicken


Sibylle and I have been experimenting in the kitchen of late and have discovered an Oriental-style chicken dish that I’m going to call Hoisin Chicken.

Start by peeling and dicing two medium or three small yellow potatoes.  The size of the dice isn’t as important as all the cubes being roughly the same size.  Cover with ample water and set to boil.

Peel and slice a carrot, or two.  Add to small skillet with water to cover and a bit of olive oil.  Toss in a green onion or two for flavor.  You may dice these if you like.  Slice (julienne) half a red pepper and add to carrots and onion.  Bring to a brisk simmer and cover.

Wash two chicken breasts, and then cube.  Smaller bite sized pieces seems to work best.  Put three or four table spoons of corn starch in a shallow bowl and sprinkle on a generous amount of ginger.  I also add a bit of black pepper for taste and color.  

Heat two or three table spoons worth of olive oil in a skillet.  When a drop of water jumps off the oil, add the dredged chicken pieces and brown, turning frequently.  Once the chicken is browned add the vegetable mixture and combine.

I use two heaping table spoons worth of hoisin sauce, and stir until everything is even coated.  Drain the potatoes and add them to the skillet last and toss to coat.

Serve immediately.  Makes 2-4 portions, depending on portion size and amount of chicken and potato you started with.